Talking Kink With Alex + Ellie
Talking Kink With Alex + Ellie
episode 41: about that one time at band camp
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episode 41: about that one time at band camp

They say there’s a first time for everything, and there are few firsts as hotly anticipated or talked about than your first sexual encounter.

Turning in your v-card. Popping your cherry. Becoming a man or a woman. Your first time. There are a lot of euphemisms for the first time someone has sex, and pretty much all of them are loaded with centuries, if not millennia, of culture, traditions, and social implications. This is why this week, we’re teaming up with our fellow podcaster Ruan Willow to talk about our first times and dissect what the big deal really is, and why the concept of virginity was so important back in the day.

Resources and further reading…

- Ruan Willow | X/Twitter | Substack
- Virgin Fetish: History, Culture, And Ways to Play
- At Least 20 Countries Keep Doing Virginity Testing
- Why There Is No Such Thing As A Virginity Test
- WHO Calls For Ban On Virginity Testing

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Talking Kink With Alex + Ellie
Talking Kink With Alex + Ellie
A podcast about kinks, fetishes, the mythology and psychology of sex, and the future of relationships, sexuality, reproduction, and culture.